Ladies… (Marilyn here)
Let’s talk about cum. Does it horrify you? Disgust you? It shouldn’t! I’ll tell you why- if you think about it a little bit, you’ll know I’m right. First, most of us gals are programmed that slimy = icky. Well, sometimes that can be true, but how often do you eat slimy food? Yogurt, oysters, pudding: there are dozens of ‘slimy’ things we eat all the time. The most important psychological point I want to make however, is what is cum?
I don’t mean the dictionary definition, or what’s the nutritional composition is- don’t think about it on a physical level… I mean think about it. Cum is the cumulative effect of both physical and mental stimulation. A man cumming is a symbol of his achieving physical and mental nirvana from sexual stimulation. It is his sexual love. When a man is engaged in intercourse with you, or receiving oral sex, etc- he is enjoying both the physical and the mental stimulus associated with it. His coming to orgasm is an expression that says, “I am happy, content, and most of all, pleased!”. In other words, you have done well (even if you’re just lying there, he’s enjoying your body, the thought of the intimacy with you!).
Enjoy it for what it is! His pleasure, his token to you- that where he is, what he is doing, is making him incredibly happy- if even for just those moments. You can’t touch love, or see it- but I honestly believe that my man’s cum is the closest thing I can get to his giving me his physical love- his body and mind collaborating to create and give me that symbol of appreciation. So take it for just that! Enjoy it!
Personally, when he comes on my face- I think I’m subconsciously feeling like I’m actually bathing in him. Feeling his warmth, the love for me. Sometimes I’ll spread it around on my face, maybe I’ll take it and put it into my mouth to taste him (believe me- it’s a taste you can not only get used to-but to almost crave!). I may take it and rub it all over my breasts, or put some inside of me (also enjoying the stimulation of my fingers). It is very erotic and sensual- if you let it. We don’t always end our sex the same way- sometimes he will come inside of me, sometimes on my face, or in my mouth. If either of us are feeling like we ‘want it’ somewhere in particular- a sensual whisper will whip him into that ending sexual frenzy!
Let go of your preconceived notions, and enjoy his and yoursexuality!
Ladies (Jack here).. I must say I wholeheartedly agree with my wife. When I cum on her- I feel like I’m giving something of myself to her (something I had never used to think about- it was subconscious). Where I orgasm actually can increase the intensity. From talking to some other men, we can be different- but for me- coming in her mouth is usually the most intense, followed inside her doggy-style, on her face, inside her vagina, and then anywhere else is about the same.
When she ‘plays’ with it, or licks her lips, etc- (showing me she’s loves my ‘gift’), it arouses me even more- sometimes enough for another go-round, but if not- I am already looking forward to our next lovemaking session! Wow! I’m getting a bit excited just thinking about her licking my cum off of her face. Ohhhhh honeyyyy… ;)